The pot that never boils

Waiting for our daughter to have a baby is like watching the proverbial pot that never boils!

Before Andrew was born in 2008, Melaina went through what one of her doctors called the longest latent (unproductive) labour in history. It was a marathon that went on for eleven days! Over and over, her contractions would increase in intensity and regularity then slow down again. She made several frustrating trips to the hospital but each time she was told to go home and continue waiting.  Because she hadn’t reached her due date yet, they wouldn’t do anything to help her along.

Two years later, when baby #2 was on the way, the doctors assured Melaina that it was very unlikely that she’d go through the same thing again. Though not exactly the same, the weeks leading up to Jami-Lee’s birth were equally frustrating. After four episodes of false labour, she finally arrived on her due date.

Now we’re waiting for #3 and history is repeating itself. Melaina’s contractions started over three weeks ago but still no baby! Again, they increase in intensity and frequency until it appears that the time has finally come and then they subside again. After several false alarms and afraid that we’d miss the big event if we waited any longer, we packed up and came to Calgary a week ago. We thought for sure that Saturday was the day. After three hours of contractions three minutes apart, we decided that it was almost time to head for the hospital but before we did, things slowed down again.

Poor Melaina is beyond frustrated and totally exhausted. Yesterday she was given Tylenol 3 to help with the pain and allow her to get some sleep but because, once again, she hasn’t reached her official due date, the doctors are unwilling to do anything to speed things up. Her due date is Friday and she has another doctor appointment next Tuesday but we’re hoping the pot finally boils before that!

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5 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Mrs C
    Mar 12, 2014 @ 01:48:14

    Ouch, that is so frustrating! I went for a few hours labour and already I felt like it was never going to end (until they finally decided to cut me open) let alone for days! I hope the baby comes soon and all will be fine for both baby and mommy :)

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    • edebock
      Mar 12, 2014 @ 09:28:05

      My children came to me via preplanned c-sections and adoption so I have never experienced anything like what poor Melaina is going through.

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  2. Jan Bergseth
    Mar 12, 2014 @ 10:50:57

    Michelle was unplanned C section (like Mrs C) , Shannon and Eric, planned C sections. Poor Melaina :( On the bright side, maybe she could be in the Guiness Book of Records for longest labours! Hoping baby arrives soon. Looking forward to seeing pictures Elaine.

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