Full circle

In 1969, I was a grade 11 student at Argyle Secondary School in North Vancouver, BC. I was looking forward to graduating with my friends and heading off to UBC to study education. Those plans were dashed when my father accepted a job in Yellowknife, NWT and my parents refused to allow me to stay behind and spend my final year of high school living with my best friend’s family.

I had no intention of staying in Yellowknife any longer than I absolutely had to. I would return to the coast as soon as school was out and carry on with my plan to attend UBC. Life doesn’t always go according to plan, however, and I never did make it back to the coast to live.  Uprooted and rebellious, my life became a series of bad decisions culminating in an unhappy and short-lived marriage.

I did go to university and fulfill my dream of becoming a teacher but since I’d wasted the first year after high school, I decided to attend the University of Calgary where I could get the degree I wanted in four years instead of UBC where it would have taken five. Life went on. I settled on the Alberta prairie, married again and started a family.

Jump ahead about 30 years to 2006. That’s the year that our oldest son married, settled in Vancouver and entered law school at UBC. I hadn’t made it back to the coast but a whole generation later, Matthew had! He and Robin lived in a charming condo in Richmond until a couple of months ago when, having outgrown the condo by adding two adorable little grandsons to our family, they purchased a house and moved in. That house is located in North Vancouver just around the corner from Argyle Secondary School!

As I sit here in their livingroom, I feel as if I have finally come home! I gaze out the window across the creek that runs through their beautiful back yard and I see the roof of my school. I walk the streets that I walked as a teenager and, though many things have changed, they feel so very familiar. Life has come full circle and I am happy!

 

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6 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Maggie L R
    Oct 16, 2011 @ 07:41:43

    There is something about the coast of BC. I grew up on the Island and left after high school. My dream was to live in Vancouver but I ended up in Ontario. I still yearn to live in BC. I still call the Island home. I visit often because my son lives in Burnaby.
    Sometimes the dreams of our youth are fulfilled by the next generation and that is fine.

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    • edebock
      Oct 16, 2011 @ 17:09:23

      You can take the girl away from the ocean but you can’t take the ocean out of her blood! I no longer dream of living back here on the coast (if nothing else, the cost of housing is a deterrent) but I sure do love to visit.

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